Using heuristics to analyze people is my own invention. I had the idea while learning about UX design. What experience…
Category: See The Red Flags
FAQ: “Why do I keep dating narcissists/borderliners/Cluster Bs?”
I am an experiencer and a coach, not a therapist. So I will answer this question as if I was…
FAQ: “Am I being too sensitive?”
Invalidating your boundaries by calling you too sensitive is just one of the many tricks toxic people play on you….
Do huge black pupils mean that the narcissist is a demon? (No.)
Black eyes are a sign of survival mode, not of being a demon. When we fight for our lives, our…
How to stop attracting narcissists? Stop displaying neediness and helplessness.
A lot of coaches and experiencers of narcissistic abuse or exploitation will tell you that anyone, especially accomplished and independent…
The biggest red flag: people who try to discuss your boundaries away
You have probably seen this meme on social media. It goes something like: “Toxic or narcissistic people make you believe…
Journal Prompt: Are you attracted to people who do not deserve ANY of your emotions – maybe just like your parents?
Childhood neglect and abuse can have significant consequences on a child’s physical, emotional, and psychological well-being. Sometimes we remain attracted…
The feeling of Déjà-Vu … and misleading synchronicities that send you to hell
You meet a person and somehow they feel familiar. You think this person could be THE ONE, your best friend…
Going numb
Going numb can be a red flag in dating (or interacting with any kind of person), it can be your…